Kindness can go a long way during a divorce

January is the busiest month for divorces in the United States. For many reasons people choose January as the month to end their marriage. A divorce is one of the worst things a person can go through and is full of a range of extreme emotions. There are many ways to make the divorce a bit less painful and kindness is one trick. First, being kind to your ex can make you feel better about yourself and help your own attitude. Complementing your ex on his parenting style or helping her out with a simple task can go a long way in keeping the relationship civil. Second, be kind to those who are going through a divorce. This is most likely a very difficult time of their lives and being there for them is important. In addition, be kind to your kids. Kids need to feel that they are safe when their parents are going through a divorce and that their needs are being heard as well. New traditions can be started and an atmosphere of hope and positivity can go a long way. Finally, be kind to yourself. There are so many extreme emotions that are experienced in a divorce. There is no perfect way to handle them and beating yourself up over it won’t help.

A divorce has many complicated items that need to be worked out. These can include property to be divided, child visitation plans, child support, and spousal support. It can be hard to focus on these things when emotions are high and the atmosphere is tense. A legal professional skilled in divorce is an advocate for their client during their divorce. They understand how a divorce will impact their client now and into the future and can make sure their client makes the best decisions for themselves.

Being kind to others is always good advice. During a divorce it can be even more important for everyone to treat each other with kindness and respect.

Source: huffingtonpost.com, “Kindness during divorce“, James J. Sexton, Jan. 19, 2016

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