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Texas divorce: More than 1 way to reach the desired objective

Have you ever heard the phrase, "There's more than one way to skin a cat"? We suspect most readers have. It's sometimes interesting to dig into where such proverbs started. In this case, an online search suggests it traces back to at least the mid-1800s. For most of us in the U.S., it's likely to have come to the fore through Mark Twain's "A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court," where he wrote: "she was wise, subtle, and knew more than one way to skin a cat," meaning she had many ways achieve her ends.

We bring this up because where Texas law is concerned, there are more ways than many people realize for resolving divorce and other family law disputes. Going to court may have been the norm in past decades. More recently, though, things have changed. Going to trial is much rarer because there forms of alternative dispute resolution available. The burden this puts on the individual is to try to figure out which form might be most effective to pursue. This is where an attorney's help can be essential.

Who gets the gun in a divorce?

There are numerous assets often brought up in a divorce. With over 80,000 divorces reported in Texas in 2012, there is a lot for the courts to sort through. That data comes from the Texas Department of State Health Services

During a divorce, the spouses may worry about who receives what property. This involves the house and the car, but for many couples divorcing in Texas, it also involves guns. It is possible for one person to register the firearms, but in a divorce, it could go to the other spouse. Here is what Texas residents should know about the division of firearms in a divorce. 

3 steps to valuing your business during divorce

If you own a family business and know divorce is in the near future, you might be wondering what is going to happen to the company. The personal challenges for your emotions and finances are already enough to cause inner turmoil, so what should you do about the business? The most important step to take is getting a business valuation.

An accurate picture of the family business and its assets will make the property division process go smoother. Here are some important things to keep in mind as you value your business.

Dispelling some myths about divorce and money

Myths are by definition mistaken beliefs. Like many things in life, divorce is rife with myths. If they are not dispelled, it makes things worse when a couple does decide to split.

One of the particular areas of family law where myths linger is in divorce and finances. Property division, asset valuations, retirement planning, tax considerations all need to be brought into focus in divorce. The help of experienced legal counsel is always recommended for both parties to be sure the processes occur fairly and equitably. The first step is to root out mythical expectations.

How to tell if your spouse is hiding assets

If you are starting the divorce process, you may be wondering if your spouse is holding out on you financially. Many people across America keep financial secrets from their spouses for a variety of reasons. When divorce is in the air, some decide to conceal assets rather than subject them to division.

Hiding money often sends up red flags. Catching them before the assets vanish beyond recall can help you protect your interests. Your attorney can advise you as to the best ways to track the money and prove the spouse's clandestine activities.

Is there a way to keep complex divorce matters private?

The idea that what happens in court is a matter of public record is something Texas law takes quite seriously. Under the rules of civil procedure, provision 76a specifically addresses how any documents provided in the course of discovery in a case, including those involving divorce, are presumed "open to the general public."

Attorneys experienced in the area of family law appreciate that this rule can create publicity that divorcing couples might prefer to avoid, especially in cases involving extensive and complex assets. Fortunately, the rule includes some exceptions under which the court can order information sealed. Whether an exception can be pursued is something to discuss with your attorney. If a decision is made to proceed, the steps required demand a high level of due diligence.

What to do when fiancé does not want a prenup

Divorces may be on the decline throughout the country, but they are still widely prevalent. For instance, Texas had 76,423 divorces in 2013, according to a report from Texas Health and Human Services.

A lot of the hassle associated with divorce could be circumvented if both parties agreed to a prenup beforehand. While signing a prenuptial agreement is a sound financial decision, many are against it. They assume signing a prenup basically means they are setting the marriage up for failure. That is often not the case at all, and there are various ways to talk about the subject with a fiancé so everyone is happy.

Who might consider a postnuptial agreement?

The whole idea of drafting a marriage agreement based on "what if" can be hard for a Texas couple to confront. There are those who argue that prenuptial and postnuptial agreements carry an unavoidable whiff of cynicism because they address what will happen in the event of a divorce. But attorneys experienced in this area of law appreciate that well-drafted agreements are more reflective of a couple's depth of positive feeling for each other than the negative.

Context at the time such agreements are drawn up is always important. In a prenuptial situation, the married-couple-to-be is focused on trying to make clear how the couple will deal with separate and joint finances going forward. In some cases, the process might delay or derail things before vows are ever exchanged. Many would call that a better outcome than entering into a bad marriage.

The right of reimbursement in Texas property division

Individuals considering divorce for the first time may have heard about the different models of property division. In most states, the theory that rules is called equitable distribution. A judge has the power to decide what is fair. The outcome might favor one spouse over the other depending on many variables.

In fewer states, including Texas, the law focuses on what the couple has acquired over the course of the marriage. The entire stock of assets and debts making up the marriage estate is community property and is typically subject to even splitting between the parties. Holdings of the individual spouses are separate estates, but they, too, can be affected in divorce. For the sake of protecting financial interests on all fronts, an attorney's skills should be enlisted.

Is spousal maintenance a realistic option in Texas?

Some women assume they will receive alimony, or spousal maintenance, as part of a divorce settlement. They see it in celebrity cases in which the ex-wife has no need of financial support but goes after it anyway and wins.

Unfortunately, this is not the reality for most Texas women seeking a divorce. Although a 2011 law improved the guidelines, only wives who are successful in proving the need will obtain spousal maintenance.

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